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Words from a New-ish Mom

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First birthdays are a milestone moment. Not just for the newly minted toddler, but for the parents who have spent an entire year learning and often struggling through life with a baby. When I look back at Isaac’s first year, I’m struck by how much my world has shifted, but also by how at peace I am at being a mom. There have been hard, hard lessons that have been learned, with many more lessons to come as Isaac continues to grow. I’m sharing a few things I’ve taken with me on the journey so far of motherhood.

Parenting is a long game and it’s everchanging. There are days (and nights) that your baby will just need you nonstop and that’s ok. When I was working on getting Isaac to sleep in his crib, it was hours of rocking, putting down, crying, picking up, and starting all over again. It was mentally and physically exhausting, but in the end Isaac had a lightbulb moment in understanding his sleep space and I was a better parent for it. Parenting takes grit and teaching them takes time. Everything about life with a baby is a series of steps and achievements that goes a lot slower than we as adults would like. I’ve learned to appreciate the chaotic season of life that I’m in and when we’ve had a rough day, I remind myself that there’s another day ahead that will be better.

Loving being a mom can co-exist with the fact that it’s the hardest thing you’ll ever do. They are not mutually exclusive. There’s beauty in the chaos and it can be equal parts wonderful and exhausting. There is also the idea that mothers will just instinctively know how to be a mom once their baby is born and that’s unrealistic. There’s a significantly higher percentage of what I didn’t know vs. what I did know. Google it, go to a Facebook mom group, there’s no shame in not knowing.

Parenting isn’t straight forward because kids are always changing. Before Isaac, I had the idea that when babies hit milestones like sleeping through the night that that was that. I could focus on the next thing because he was a night sleeper. I didn’t realize that Isaac would sleep through the night for a week, then get sick, get new teeth, go through a sleep regression, and then sleep through the night again. Babies are little people, not robots, and good sleepers will be bad sleepers, and vice versa. Once you think you have them figured out, they change again. Eating solid foods has been a big challenge for Isaac (and myself) as of late, and I am learning that you have to wade through a lot of muck to figure out solutions.

If there’s a buzz word that would describe the last year as a first time mom, it would be the word humbling. Isaac has brought so much joy, but also a reality check. I’ve learned that it does in fact take a village to raise a child and I gladly and gratefully accept the help that’s offered. Moms don’t have to carry the weight of parenthood on their shoulders alone, that burden should be spread around. There is NO shame is taking breaks or asking for help. Taking personal time helps you recenter and you come back reenergized. Babies deserve happy and healthy moms. After having an unplanned c-section, I needed a lot of help and I couldn’t haven’t gotten through my recovery without my husband, grandparents, family, extended family, and friends who did chores. let me sleep, cooked, and took a load off of me being a new mom.

Being a mom is hard and post partum recovery is equally hard, but there is no other title that I love more than mama. It’s a title that comes with a lot of laughter, pure chaos, tears, fears, and sleepless nights. Watching Isaac grow into a little boy from a baby is the greatest gift and achievement of my life. Kids are truly a blessing and I know that I’m living some of the best days that older parents often describe when looking back.

If you ever need advice or sometime to talk to, please reach out. As a mom, you are never alone and you’re doing a great job.

-xo

Darcy

Casual Attire, Fashion

Spring Blazer

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I’m loving this tweed blazer for spring!

If there’s a trend I’m already seeing for spring, it’s the mix of suit pieces with casual. It’s not a new trend, but for springtime, it’s a great opportunity to take a bright and colorful blazer and pair it with a vintage style sneaker and jeans. It’s also a great way to take your suit pieces from work and get some extra use of them as more of an everyday look. I’m all about versatile pieces. As far as the sneakers, these Nike’s are trending and I love the chunky style heel.

I’m wearing a 4 petite in this tweed blazer and it fits true to size. I paired it with a basic crewneck t-shirt, a colorful headband, a blush purse, and oversized sunglasses. The jeans are some of my favorite ankle jeans from Abercrombie and I wear them regularly! I consistently wear a 27 short in their sizing which translates to a 4 petite.

Similar options for this outfit:

Similar to the Nike’s are these white lace-up sneakers.

Similar bag option is this beige bag.

Similar blazer style is this chambray blazer from Loft.

Happy shopping!

-xo

Darcy

Fashion, Travel

Dressing for Ski Season

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I get asked a lot during the winter living in Colorado, what to wear on a ski trip! I’m here to tell you my top ski outfit tips so you can stay warm without sacrificing style!

For your time on the slopes – besides always wearing a helmet (making a fashion statement without a helmet just isn’t worth it), dress in layers when you’re on the mountain! Especially when spring skiing comes around, the temperature at the base of the mountain can be drastically different than at the top. In the spring. I’ve found myself in a t-shirt at the bottom and zipping back up in my ski jacket again when I hop off the lift. T-shirt, a wicked sweater, and winter coat on top means you can layer up or down as needed! I wear yoga pants underneath my snow pants, a neck scarf, a beanie under my helmet, goggles, and waterproof gloves. Make sure your gear is waterproof, no one wants to be cold and wet on the mountain. For skiers specifically, you’ll want thick wool socks to go under your ski boots. Comfortable socks are crucial to a happy ski day. DON’T fold them down or roll them! Make sure the sock is all the way up your leg with nothing else going into your boot because once you tighten your boots, you’ll feel everything going on in your boot and again, comfort is key. I also carry a waterproof backpack to carry water, a credit card, ID, and sunscreen.

skiing outfit!
Not pictured are my Solomon Lumen skis.

Essentials to pack for your ski trip –

Swimsuit (après time!), faux fur vest(s)/coat, faux leather leggings, and a couple of warm boot options. I like to bring tan/light colored options, as well as a black version. Pack turtlenecks, a tunic sweater, and a couple pairs of jeans. For coats, I suggest packing a more casual puffer jacket and a dressier option for dinners out. Cute and cozy beanies are also high on my pack list, and a couple of cozy scarves to match. Normally I would recommend some sort of heel for dinner or a dress, but honestly you rarely see dresses, and wearing a dark washed jean or legging is perfectly acceptable at dinner. Pairing your look with a faux fur coat or a patterned coat will elevate your look, Also, no one wants to slip on ice or trip wearing heels in a ski village, so a boot is also acceptable and normal. I promise you wont be over dressed.

My biggest piece of advice is to pack pieces that you can wear in multiple settings. Below, I’m wearing my faux leather leggings and Chelsea boots to make multiple outfits. Winter clothing takes up considerable space in your suitcase and rewearing turtlenecks, leggings, and boots is the best way to stay under that suitcase weight limit! Also, if you know it’s going to be chilly when you get off the plane, it may be worth wearing some of your bulky clothes on the plane. You’ll be warm when you deplane and it’ll save a little space in your luggage!

Below are five outfits I’ll wear on a ski trip. I have shared similar options when an item isn’t available. As always, my links are commissionable and I appreciate when you use them to make a purchase!

Walking around town and shopping outfit option!

Another cozy outfit for exploring the town or going out!

xo-

Darcy

Baby Boy

Baby Things!

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Since I’ve been pregnant, I’ve found a lot of baby things that I want to share with you that I have yet to publish on here! Below you’ll see my baby must haves. I researched and talked to so many mamas and this is my list of wants and needs for baby.

Bottom half: travel crib, Tripp Trapp High Chair attachment for infants, a quality diaper bag, and a bottle sanitizer/steamer. Top half: Star Wars blanket, Munchkin Digital Bottle Warmer, and a pack n’ play with accessories. To shop, please click my LTK post link.

Bottom half: Pacifier Clip, Sit me up floor seat, bottle brushes. a splat mat for under the highchair, pacifiers, WubbaNub giraffe pacifier, and a baby tub. Top half: an ear and forehead thermometer, a wet/dry bag, hooded bath towel, burp cloths, sunscreen, gripe water, and rash cream. I am also linking a few extra things over on my LTK. To shop, please click my LTK post

Bottom half: jogging stroller, Halo SleepSack, baby blankets, and a WiFi baby monitor. Top half: Slumber Pod Sleep Canopy, Baby Bjorn mini carrier, and the Ubbi diaper pail. To shop, please click my LTK post

Casual Attire, Fashion

Life at Light Speed!

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Hi my friends!

It has been awhile since I sat down and wrote a post! Life is going full steam ahead and I am happy to say that I am 7 months pregnant!

My first trimester I dealt with difficult morning sickness. Second trimester was much better. The third trimester is uncomfortable and pregnancy heartburn is no joke. Baby boy is looking healthy and will be arriving late spring! We have a couple of names picked out and are looking forward to starting this new adventure as parents.

I really didn’t dive into maternity specific fashion till I was partially through my second trimester, but I have found that PinkBlush has great maternity fashion that’s well priced! This t-shirt dress comes in a ton of colors and can be styled a ton of different ways! It’s a snug fit and I’m wearing my true size of small, but I would recommend sizing up if you want more room. To see the full post visit my LTK.

–xo

Darcy

Business Attire, Fashion

Fall Fashion 2021

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Just a sneak peek into fall fashion 2021! Lots of faux leather, pinafores, and windowpane skirts and dresses! These previews from LOFT and Ann Taylor are making me want a pumpkin spice late and a cozy blanket next to the fire place. What are you craving about the fall season? Drop your fall wish list in the comments below!

First up is a look into LOFT’s fall line.

Second up is Ann Taylor’s fall collection. I am loving all of their plaid pieces!

-xo

Darcy

Business Attire

End of Summer Sale

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Ann Taylor End of Summer Sale! Extra 50% off^* + Additional 30% off^* All Sale Styles!

The Ann Taylor End of Summer Sale sale ends on 7/22! I love Ann Taylor’s petite friendly clothing and they have some great end of the summer finds including white pants and summer sandals.

Ann Taylor can be on the pricier side when it’s not on sale, so when a big sale comes along, I always take advantage. Their pieces are high quality and they fit my 5’1 frame really well!

Happy shopping!

-xo

Darcy

Recipes

Strawberry Shortcake Trifle

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There are two things people think of when the word “trifle” comes up. Rachel Green making a beef trifle on FRIENDS and how hard it is to make. I’m here to tell you that making a trifle is actually a simple dessert that can be made in so many ways. In winter, it’s a cranberry trifle and in summer, it’s this sweet strawberry shortcake trifle.

Strawberry Shortcake Trifle Ingredients –

2 cups cake flour (MUST be cake flour)
1 tablespoon baking powder
1/4 teaspoon baking soda
2 tablespoons sugar
3/4 teaspoon salt
2 cups heavy cream (I use an organic cream and it’s AH-MAZING)

Fruit –

2 pounds sliced strawberries
2 tablespoons sugar
Another 2 tablespoons of lemon juice

Whipped Cream Ingredients –

3 cups cold heavy whipping cream
6 tablespoons powdered sugar
1 teaspoon vanilla extract

Lets get to baking this strawberry shortcake trifle!

Preheat your oven to 400 degrees. Spray or grease an 8-inch round pan and set aside. In a medium bowl stir together the flour, baking powder, baking soda, sugar, and salt. Add in the 2 cups of heavy cream and stir till the mixture is combined. At this point, this mixture is STICKY. Don’t fret, you’re doing it right!
Pour mix into the round pan and bake for 20-25 minutes. I check on it constantly. Remove from oven and let cool completely.
In a medium sized bowl, add strawberries, sugar, and lemon juice and stir to combine. Set aside.
Now it’s time to make the whipped cream! In a bowl or stand alone mixer, beat the cold whipping cream until soft peaks form. Add in the powdered sugar and vanilla and beat another 1-2 minutes.
Once the shortcake has cooled prepare to assemble the trifle. This is the fun part! Begin with a bottom layer of crumbled shortcake on the followed by a layer of cream, then strawberries. Repeat layers until ingredients run out. Cover and store in the fridge until ready to serve. When assembling, just take your time! Make sure you are gentle when adding the cream to the top of the shortcake so you don’t pull up the crumbs. To really get the layers, focus on the sides and making them tall!

Bon appétit!

Checkout my summer sangria recipe to keep the tastes of summer coming!

-xo

Darcy

Recipes

White Sangria Recipe

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Nothing is more refreshing in summer than a light, fruity drink. Fresh fruit makes this summer white sangria recipe perfect for the 4th of July!

This fizzy and fruity sangria is perfect for a summer weekend

This white sangria recipe is for a large drink dispenser so there is plenty for everyone, but it’s so simple that you can easily alter it for a smaller crowd. You can’t really ever have enough fruit to go wrong!

What you’ll need-

8 cups watermelon (cube them and remove seeds)
An additional 5-6 water melon slices to be used for garnish. The recipe called for a star shaped cookie cutter to cut out star shapes using the watermelon slices, but I don’t own one and skipped over this step.
3 cups quartered strawberries
3 cups blueberries
1.5 liter of your favorite white wine (Sauvignon Blanc or Pinot Grigio are my favs)
2 cups of Sprite or lemon lime soda (this is optional, but I like it because of the added fizz)
16 ounces or 2 cups of Triple Sec
8 ounces or 1 cup lemon juice
This recipe also calls for purple or red seedless grapes, but I didn’t use them

Directions –

Start out by slicing and prepping the fruit.
Cut out the watermelon stars using the watermelon slices. 6-8 stars will be enough to line the dispenser. Again, I bypassed this step.
Begin by layering the fruit in the container with 5 cups of watermelon, then half of the blueberries, and half of the strawberries.
Top the strawberries with half of the grapes (if using). Make sure the watermelon stars are visible from the outside of the container. The festive feel is the best part and you want to show it off!
Layer remaining fruit in container staring with the blueberries then the strawberries and remaining 2 cups of watermelon.
Combine lime soda, lemon juice, white wine, and Tripe Sec in a separate pitcher, stir, then pour over fruit in beverage dispenser.
Steep the sangria for at least 6 hours in the fridge. The longer you let the mixture rest, the more the flavors come out, giving it that muddled fruit flavor.
Next step – sit back and enjoy the sweet taste of summer

The summer outfit I’m wearing is also shoppable via the LTK app.

-xo

Darcy

Lifestyle

Miley the Rescue

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When Nate and I decided that we wanted a dog, I knew I wanted to go the rescue route. There are many great breeders out there, but there are already so many dogs looking for good homes. I knew that’s where my heart was. Nate had never had a dog and I also knew that asking him to take on a dog that potentially came with a lot of baggage was asking a lot.

We also knew we needed a low shedding dog because of Nate’s allergies and anything with “oodle” in it is a competitive adoption market to say the least. Dogs are listed and within a few hours, they are already gone. I spent about a year plugged into every poodle and doodle rescue from Colorado to Florida. I heard about the National Mill Dog Rescue located in Colorado Springs, Colorado through various groups and spent many-a-hour looking at their rescues. A group of staff and volunteers take their large Sprinter vans throughout the midwest and they rescue dogs from commercial breeders who relinquish them. Sometimes they rescue 20 dogs and sometimes it’s 70. They always do an off loading when the van arrives back at NMRD and watching the dogs being brought off is both heartbreaking and beautiful. Many of these dogs are older and have a host of health and behavioral challenges. I saw a dog that I was interested in back in November and we were all set to meet her and then my nephew died suddenly. After his passing, dog adoption wasn’t an option (we were barely surviving) and felt that we had missed our adoption chance.

As healing goes, I started to be open to looking again for a dog through NMDR this spring. At the end of February, I contacted the coordinator and inquired about a dog we might be interested in meeting. Because we had built a bit of a relationship by that point and the coordinator knew the type of dog we were interested in, she emailed me and said that she didn’t think that the dog I was interested in would be a good fit, BUT she had another dog who wasn’t even on the website yet that had just arrived. She would hold her for us if we could drive down and meet her soon. She was a 2 year old standard poodle who was described as “sweet and shy.” Enter my Miley girl (named after the mile high city).

When we met Miley (Lacey at the time), I was taken aback by her level of fear. I knew she would be shy and lack social skills, but I was still shocked at how nervous she actually was. When you see it first hand, it’s both overwhelming and difficult to process. During our meeting, we were patient, slow moving, and she eventually came over for treats and let us pet her. She had likely never seen grass and everything was and largely still is new for her. I knew that we were taking on a challenge and we would have to be all in for us to give her what she needed.

The day after we had our meet and greet I received a call from the rescue informing us that Miley had had puppies that day. I honestly can’t make this up. When we met her, Nate inquired about her looking like she had had puppies and they told us that she had likely had a litter recently. She was so new to the rescue at that time that she hadn’t gone through a medical intake yet. When they walked into her kennel, she had already had one puppy and had a C-section for her other two (two boys and a girl). During her C-section, she was also spayed and she will never be forced into breeding again.

After her surprise puppies, Miley went to a foster home for 8 weeks to nurse and raise her pups till they could also be adopted. It was an option for us to foster the puppies, but Nate and I were not equipped to take on such a massive undertaking. After 8 weeks, we were able to make the drive to get her and I’m not going to lie and say that I wasn’t ready to give up that night. There were tears shed and I wasn’t sure we’d make it through the night. She had a tooth removed prior to us picking her up and the medicine resulted in a number of messes being made on our rugs and I have never seen a dog so nervous. She paced for hours upon hours through the night and refused to lay down. She would start to fall asleep standing up and jolt awake before she would start pacing again. At around 4 AM, she finally collapsed from pure exhaustion and for the next week she slept for 10-12 hours at a time.

Through these massive adjustments, she’s become my shadow dog and follows me diligently from room to room. Despite this, when she is left on her own, she hasn’t chewed anything or had any accidents in the house. There is howling when I leave, but her separation anxiety is manageable so far. She is shy, but never aggressive. She walks great on a leash and has gone to the dog park a number of times to meet other dogs. Her challenges are unique though and not related to behavior. If anything, it’s learning how to be a dog. There is little interest in toys or playtime (she does like to run up the stairs though.) She also loves pets, but she doesn’t seek them out and you have to go to her. She did lay on my leg yesterday and moments like that are big milestones for us. She also recently learned that she can go to the bathroom outside of our own backyard. Things like this sound silly, but she really is a blank canvas. There is a light in her eyes that wasn’t there before and her curiosity about things grows everyday. She stiffs things more than ever and is developing her own personality. We are working to get her skin and fur healthy and she is a little underweight. Right now she can eat all the treats and meats that she wants and we are content with spoiling her. I also love seeing Nate love her. He had never experienced the love you can have for a pet and seeing him dote on his dog girl makes me love him even more.

The biggest take away from adopting Miley is the patience that’s required. There are moments where all I want is for her to pick up a ball and run with it, but it’s all in her own time. We are happy to go at her pace and things will happen when she’s ready. We honestly didn’t know how much we needed her and I believe that she was always meant to be ours. Life is funny that way. She is a silly and sweet blessing that fills our days with such joy and laughter. The kindness that she shows is remarkable despite how she has been treated by other people. She is willing to trust and to forgive. Many dogs in her situation struggle to overcome that trauma, but she is incredibly resilient and every milestone is a reminder of how far she’s come.

-xo

Darcy

Travel

Sweet Treats

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What is your guilty pleasure? Is it chocolate cake, a good piece of pie, an ice-cream sundae? I LOVE cookie dough and a couple of years ago I stumbled upon this little slice of goodness while visiting my husband’s family in Northern Virginia. The Dough Jar is located in Georgetown in Washington, DC and although it’s small and quaint, this serve cookie dough that is safe to eat and they can mix it into a milkshake for you! You’ll thank me later!

They have this fun and bright neon sign up when you enter!

Due to COVID, they are currently operating on strange hours. I tried going with my husband last time we were visiting my in-laws and they were closed, so this time we stopped by after checking Google and had to wait 15 minutes for them to open (Google said 5:30 and the door said 6:00). I don’t blame businesses for cutting hours where they can and I hope small businesses like the Dough Jar make it through the pandemic. They also ship their edible dough nationwide, so if you’re looking for a girls night or just craving a tub of cookie dough, The Dough Jar has you covered!

I ordered chocolate chip cookie dough blended with cookies and cream ice-cream + sprinkles (got to have sprinkles!) This was one happy girl!

If you’re in the DC area, I highly recommend The Dough Jar as a fun stop. Georgetown also has some of the most beautiful and charming Colonial neighborhoods in addition to the University. Take your milkshake and get lost in exploring the area!

Outfit details: Pink Blazer in 4P from Boden. Another option is the Harlow Blazer from Macy’s. It doesn’t come in petite sizing, but is almost identical in color!

Jeans: Petite Sculpting Pocket Highest Rise Skinny Jeans in Classic Dark Indigo Wash (4P) from Ann Taylor. Another option is High Rise True Skinny Jeans from Gap! I always have good things to say about Gap jeans and love that they carry petite sizes.

Block Heels: Brielle Suede Block Heel Slingback Pumps from Ann Taylor. Another option is a similar pair of Slingback Heels from Ann Taylor Factory.

Jewelry/Headband: Heart Headband from Ann Taylor and Pearlized Heart Earrings from LOFT.

This post contains affiliated links. If you click through and make a purchase, I may receive a commission (at no cost to you). Thank you for supporting me this way and helping me generate future content that I hope you’ll enjoy!

-xo

Darcy

Travel

Traveling in Style

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Oh, travel days! Traveling days can be long and stressful, but that doesn’t mean you have to dread days when you have to go to the airport.

Travel has been a big part of my life for a long time and COVID has been a strange and sad experience to say the least. I’m not traveling like I used to, but I am still on the occasional plane. I particularly miss the days of going overseas, but I know those days will come again. I am sharing how I typically dress for flying/travel in general and a few things that I never go without!

Travel Joggers – These Travel Joggers by Abercrombie are my go-tos! They have a wind breaker fabric and that means that they can withstand a spill better than traditional sweatpants or jeans. They are currently limited in petite sizes, but available in regular sizes all three colors (olive, black, and cream). And lets face it, there is nothing worse than getting on a plane with a noticeable coffee spill down your front. I also love these pants because they are versatile and I can style them in other ways when I get to my destination! A&F also does carry a ton of other joggers and these Fleece Joggers are another great option!

2. A comfortable sweatshirt for traveling is a must. Even if you think you wont get cold on a plane, carry one with you! Plane temps can be all over the place and a soft sweater makes the journey more enjoyable. I’m coming back to Abercrombie because they really do have great travel pieces. Try this Mockneck Sweatshirt or this Side-Snap Turtleneck Sweatshirt. Both options are stylish and cozy.

3. An inexpensive backpack. I’m all for an expensive bag, but when you’re traveling, your bag touches everything and rather than worry about a bag getting some travel related wear-and-tear, I’d rather use a less expensive option that holds all of my travel related things. I use this Dome backpack from Target and love how roomy it is! It’s spacious enough to carry my laptop, wallet, a book, and other small odds and ends.

4. A basic ballcap and oversized sunglasses to cover that plane hair and tired eyes after you land. Try this black baseball cap from Target and my favorite oversized sunnies are these Cabana Sunglasses from J.Crew.

5. Besides a sweatshirt, I always carry a coat with me. I prefer a longer coat so that I can use it as blanket if I get cold on the plane. I love the classic feel of a trench coat. Try this Cotton Twill Trench from Banana Republic that comes in two colors and has petite sizes! I also like a comfortable tennis shoe like the Adidas Edge. It only takes one bad blister experience in an airport to know to wear comfortable shoes. If I do wear flats or heels, I always pack tennis shoes and a thick pair of socks in my carry-on so that I can change after take off. *Side note, it also doesn’t hurt to carry some Advil and a few Band-Aids in your carry-on.*

6. In terms of beauty, in my carryon I have a lip balm, a good concealer, and a face cream. For my lip balm, I love Moroccan Magic! It’s oil based and I find that it keeps your lips extra hydrated vs. traditional wax based balms. For my concealer, I use Lauren Flawless Fusion Ultra Longwear Concealer. This concealer comes in a variety of skin tones and I use the Natural Finish for my fairer complexion. I really like this concealer because it is not too heavy and when I’m traveling, I don’t want my skin to be weighed down with makeup. For my skin cream, I use Summer Fridays Jet Lag Mask. I swear by this stuff! I apply this goodness after I land and it really does hydrate and refresh your skin in a way that doesn’t seem real.

So I do have to level with you, Summer Friday recently came out to say that they had a batch of the mask that was compromised. Having a company take responsibility when they make a mistake is admirable. Click here to read their full statement. This means a lot of the product has been pulled from shelves temporarily. I have never had any sort of reaction to their products and they are still selling the mask on Amazon, but I don’t feel comfortable sharing it unless you contact me directly. I don’t ever want to share a product that is potentially harmful! As it stands, I will update this post when the mask comes back to the market.

7. My last must have when traveling is a power pack (don’t be the person hunting for an outlet to plug into). Try this Portable Charger from Best Buy for under $30. If you’re flying economy or domestically and you don’t have a charger under your seat, it’s worth it to travel with a battery pack.

Happy travels!

-xo

Darcy

Casual Attire, Fashion

Valentine’s Day Fashion

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Who doesn’t love festive fashion!

LOFT has rolled out their Valentine’s Day fashion for 2021 and gals, it is CUTE! Below I am sharing some of my favorite Valentine’s Day sweaters, as well as a couple of other pieces including a skirt, some jewelry, and an adorable set of festive pajamas! Ann Taylor also has some super cute pieces in their preview, but they haven’t dropped just yet! Stay tuned for a follow up for more Valentine’s Day themed fashion!

Some items are on sale, some are not! It’s a mix of pieces that are all under $100. Lou and Grey (they’re a branch of LOFT) doesn’t go on sale often, but that’s not to say it’s never part of a LOFT sale! Lou and Grey pieces also don’t cater to petite sizing, but I find that it still fits well and I typically size down to an XS instead of my normal small petite. Some of these pieces are 50% off and use the code TREAT at checkout!

Reading left to right:

1. Red Heart Boatneck Sweater – $69.50

2. Heart Faux Fur Sweatshirt – $69.50

3. Black Heart Sweater – $69.50

4. Cupid Boatneck Sweater – $69.50

5. Grey Heart Sweater – $69.50

6. Lou & Grey Colored Heart Sweater – $89.50

Reading left to right:

1. Heart Embroidered Ruffle Trim Shirt – $64.50

2. Heart Barrette in Gold – $16.50

3. Heart Button Ruffle Dress – $89.50

4. Pearlized Heart Earrings – $29.50

5. Heart Tiered Skirt – $59.50

6. Heart Pajama Shorts & Heart Pajama Cami – $29.50 for each piece.

Check back later for more Valentine’s Day fashion from Ann Taylor!

-xo

Darcy

Lifestyle

New Year, New Goals!

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Happy 2021! I think it’s safe to say that we’re all happy to see 2020 in the rear view mirror. As we step into a new year, I think now more than ever, people are seeking out a life reset. What goals are you trying to tackle this year?

New Year, new goals! I’m not a person who likes the word “resolution.” To me, a resolution is something that’s achieved and then shelved. What we set out to accomplish should be something that’s always evolving and we build good habits through repetition. There’s some statistic out there that it takes 3 weeks to build a daily habit. I prefer the term goal instead of resolution because goals are fluid and we can set durations of time for whatever the goal is. Whether you’re working on stressing less and meditating more, or working towards being more active, you can tackle it! Sometimes it takes grit and even tears to get to where we want to be, but determination keeps us going forward. If there’s anything to take from 2020 lessons, it’s that people are resourceful and resilient in spirit. We’ve all come out the other side with a new appreciation for things and we can channel those energies into being the best versions of ourselves.

Also, thank you for being here. I am truly grateful for this adventure of blogging and I look forward to the continued growth and development that is Fashionable Petite!

Cheers darlings!

-xo

Darcy

Casual Attire, Fashion

Happy Holidays!

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Thank you so much for being here. I am so grateful for this community and as 2020 comes to a close, I am reflecting on all of my blessings (there are many!)

It has been been such a difficult year for my family, but I am continually reminded of the love and light that fills my life. Stay safe, stay well, and let us all look to brighter days in 2021!

“Hot Cocoa” Sweatshirt from Lou & Grey (went down a size to XS)

This beanie is from last year, but I’m sharing a similar Faux Fur Pom Beanie!

Flannel Pajama Pants from Banana Republic Factory (wearing my true size of small)

-xo

Darcy

Casual Attire, Fashion

Reimagining Tweed Dresses

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When you think of tweed, you probably think of stuffy suits and shoulder pads. I’m happy to say that tweed is making a come back in a whole new way! Retailers are reimagining tweed dresses and making tweed stylish again.

I picked up this Tweed Fringe Dress from Red Dress and I’m absolutely in love with it! It fits true to size (I bought a size small). It is snug through the chest and it’s also shorter than I realized, but I like offsetting the shortness of this dress with a tall boot. The fringe adds an added layer of fun. I also added an embellished headband for an extra twist.

Tweed Dress from Red Dress. On sale for around $30.00!

Turtleneck Bodysuit from Red Dress

Headband from J. Crew is sold out, but Amazon has an identical one!

Boots from Target are sold out, but I’m sharing these Yancy Boots instead!

Fashion is so supposed to be fun, so why not embrace some pieces that are outside of your typical norm! Reimagining tweed dresses is fun as we approach 2021!

-xo

Darcy

Dressy Attire

New Year’s Eve Outfit Inspo Part 2

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Even in a year of a pandemic, you can still celebrate New Year’s Eve and look good doing it! Whether you’re celebrating in your living room or having a socially distant dinner out, I am sharing my 10 NYE outfit ideas! You know this girl loves some sparkle! Part 2 of 2 below.

1. High Waisted Sequin Ankle Pant from Express – $54.00

2. Shimmer Cuffed Wrap Top from Ann Taylor – $49.99

3. Shimmer Hoop Earrings from LOFT – $24.50

4. Estee & Lilly Crystal Small Rectangle Clutch from Target – $25.00

5. Chastin Platform Sandal from Nordstrom – $71.00

1. Velvet Kimono Cover-Up from Express – $49.00

2. High Waisted Satin Slit Front Straight Pant from Express – $40.00

3. Satin Cowlneck T-Strap Back Bodysuit from Abercrombie – $22.50

4. Sequin Embellished Frame Clutch from Ann Taylor – $89.50

5. Suri Block Heel Sandal from Nordstrom – $49.00

1. Sequin Mini Skirt from Abercrombie – $59.00

2. Lou & Grey Sparkle Mock Neck Sweater from LOFT – $78.00

3. All that Glitters Gold Woven Envelope Clutch from Lulus – $29.00

4. Plans To Dance Gold Ankle Strap Heels from Red Dress – $34.00

5. Resin Glitter Hoop Earrings from Banana Republic – $37.99

1. Velvet Puff Sleeve Sheath Dress from Express – $40.00

2. Estee & Lilly Textured Satin Basketweave Clutch by Target – $35.00

3. Never Grow Up Black Ankle Strap Heels by Red Dress – $32.00

4. Mid-Length Faux Fur Coat by Abercrombie – $96.00

5. Pearl and Crystal Bracelet with Velvet Bow from J. Crew – $49.50

1. Metallic Balloon Sleeve Crew Neck Sweatshirt from Express -$40.00

2. Mini Skirt in stretch velvet from J. Crew – $98.00

3. Jacoby Over The Knee Boot from DSW – $109.99

4. Seed Bead Hoop Earrings from Ann Taylor – $49.50

5. Estee & Lilly Textured Satin Basketweave Clutch from Target – $35.00

-xo

Darcy

Dressy Attire

New Years Eve Outfit Inspo Part 1

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1. Mic Drop Silver Sequin Dress from Red Dress – $64.00

2. Mid-Length Faux Fur Coat from Abercrombie & Fitch – $96.00

3. Olwyn Platform Sandal from Nordstrom – $89.00

4. Time to Love Pewter Multi Beaded Envelope Clutch from Lulus – $43.00

5. Seed Bead Hoop Earrings from Ann Taylor – $49.50

1. BB Dakota Hit the Lights Sequin Dress from Magnolia Boutique – $89.00

2. Vegan Leather Belted Moto Jacket from Express – $74.00

3. Estee & Lilly Textured Satin Basketweave Clutch from Target – $35.00

4. Briar Platform Sandal from Nordstrom – $49.00

5. Glittery Earrings 3-Pack Gift Set from Banana Republic – $58.00

1. Satin Ruched Wrap Mini Dress from Abercrombie – $69.00

A longer version of this dress is the Satin Ruched Midi Dress from Abercrombie.

2. The Hutton Blazer in Velvet from Ann Taylor – $179.00 (don’t let the high price intimidate you! Ann Taylor regularly has good sales!)

3. Timeless Moves Black Ankle Strap Heels from Red Dress – $28.00

4. Bonjour Gold Pearl Hoop Earrings from Red Dress – $46.00

5. Pearlized Embellished Frame Clutch from Ann Taylor – $89.50

1. Thrill Of The Night Silver Sequin Skirt from Red Dress – $48.00

2. Masquerade Faux Nubuck Black Pumps from Magnolia Boutique – $36.00

3. Estee & Lilly Crystal Small Rectangle Clutch from Target – $25.00

4. Absolute Stunner Black Velvet Striped Long Sleeve Bodysuit by Lulus – $42.00

5. Pearlized Starburst Stud Earrings by Ann Taylor – $34.50

1. The Pleated Pull On Pant by Ann Taylor – $129.00

2. Sequin Crew Neck Tee by Express – $44.00

3. Looking Chill Black Faux Fur Coat by Lulus – $78.00

4. Staying Out Later Black Multi Beaded Sequin Clutch – $41.00

5. Kate pumps in velvet from Ann Taylor – $198.00 (Again, Ann Taylor always has sales going on!)

-xo

Darcy

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The Realities of Grief

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What exactly is grief?

Grief is sadness and grief is pain. Grief is taking the memories that fill your brain and crying for both the special moments you shared, as well as the mundane. But what if you grieve for what never was and what never came to be? Grief that is longing for what we could not have and what we could not hold on to. Grief for the fleeting dreams that we so desperately wanted. On November 23, I began the lifelong grief that is losing a child. My sweet nephew was born with a rare genetic condition. He spent 8 days with us before my sister and brother in-law made the agonizing decision to turn off the medicine that was keeping his heart beating. When his heart stopped beating that day, a part of mine did too.

We were not ready.

My family was not prepared to let him go. No family ever is ever ready, but we were not equipped for a child to be born with a genetic condition. My sister and brother in-law have a toddler who is perfectly healthy. Being faced with the reality of a sick infant was shocking, confusing, and breathlessly painful. The doctors never suspected anything was wrong throughout my sister’s pregnancy and that unpreparedness has made the process of grieving that much more challenging. The feeling of powerlessness is an understatement. We had toys underneath the Christmas tree and a Christmas stocking with his name on it. I can only describe the helplessness as a wave that crashes down on you again and again. You are constantly pounded by another wave as you try to stand again.

In the face of such grief, nothing matters. Not brushing your hair, going to work, or any other normal life task. You just go through the motions of living and hope that there is a point where life matters again. Normal life though is gone and in its place is an empty shell of what life should have been like.

When you grieve for an adult, you grieve for the moments you shared. When you grieve for child, you grieve for the moments that will not come. First steps, first ice-cream cone, first car, first date, and all the puzzle pieces that snap together to create childhood and adolescence. Dreams that never came to fruition. For me, I grieve for the children my husband and I don’t yet have. Their playmate is gone, and they will also have to endure the burden of such a loss as they grow up.

There is a bench underneath my kitchen window, and I find myself sitting on the bench at night when the house is dark and silent. I stare out the window and I talk to my nephew. My neighbors across the field have their fences strung with Christmas lights and the colored displays hit my windowpane while I wonder if my nephew sees the shiny lights from heaven. I wonder who he would have been and I hope he has a warm blanket tucked around him as he sleeps on the clouds.

My family is different now and we are learning to live with a sadness that will never fully go away. I was so lucky to have met my nephew the day before the monitors were switched off. The hospital made an enormous exception during COVID to let us spend an afternoon with him. To me, the machines melted away and he was just a little boy being loved on by his aunts, uncles, and grandparents. He was awake, alert, and held my hand. Letting go of those 10 perfect fingers was the single most difficult moment of my life and I miss him every hour and every day.

How do you cope?

Grief is strange, grief is weird. If you find yourself grieving, please know that you are not alone. Also know that there is no right way to grieve. Grief can manifest itself in different ways and how you grieve is what’s right for you at that time. Having an amazing network of support has truly been our salvation. I can’t repay the kindness people have so selflessly shown my family. Know there’s love to be found in the sadness and that even though the pain becomes part of who you are, there are brighter and sunnier days ahead.

-xo

Fashion

Where to Shop on Cyber Monday

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Happy shopping day! Here is a quick guide to some of the sales going on during Cyber Monday 2020! These are just stores I frequent and are by no means all the deals out there.

Ann Taylor – 50% off your purchase + free shipping. End on 12/1. Use code CYBER

J. Crew. – 50% off your purchase. Ends at midnight EST 11/30. Use code CYBER

Pottery Barn – 20% off of your purchase + free shipping over $79. Ends 11/30 11:59PM PT. Use code CYBER

Loft – 50% off your purchase + free shipping. Ends 12/2 at 3:00AM EST. Use code CYBER

Express – 50% off your purchase + free shipping. The discount rings in automatically!

Banana Republic – Up to 75% off everything (no code needed)+ an EXTRA 10% OFF with code: BRCYBER & free shipping. Ends 11/30/20 at 11:59PM PT.

Red Dress – 25% off site wide. Ends 11/29 at 12:00pm. Use code CYBER. Ends 11/30.

Abercrombie & Fitch – 40% Off Entire Store + Additional 15% Off Select Sale Styles. Ends 11/30 (no exact time listed). Discount rings in automatically!

Target – Target has a lot of different deals going on including an extra 15%on select video games, kitchen, floor care & cold weather gear. I added some of my favorite women’s clothing finds over on LIKE.TO.KNOW.IT account (click my Instashop page).

Nordstrom – Nordstrom has all sorts of Cyber Deals through 12/1. Select items are up to 50% off. The added new deals on 11/30 that are fantastic!

Gap – 50% off everything (+ extra 10% off with code GAPCYBER) + free shipping. Ends 12/1 at 11:59PM PT.

Magnolia Boutique – 30% off site wide! Use code CYBERMODAY30.

Lulus – 50% site wide (it looks like it’s valid on most everything. USE code CYBER50. Ends 11/30 11:59PM PT.

Mint Julep – 30% off site wide. Use code CYBER30. Ends 11/30. ALL SALES ARE FINAL. Ends 12/1 at 3:30am EST.

American Eagle – 40% off site wide including jeans! I assume the sale rings automatically and ends on 11/30.

I will be updating this list as I see more deals. Happy shopping!

To see everything I’ve shared, click my Insta Shop page and download the LIKE.TO.KNOW.IT app! It’s free and you can access ALL of my sale picks!

-xo

Darcy

Ann Taylor End of Summer Sale! Extra 50% off* + Additional 30% off* All Sale Styles!

Strawberry Shortcake Trifle Ingredients –

Fruit –

Whipped Cream Ingredients –

Lets get to baking this strawberry shortcake trifle!

Nothing is more refreshing in summer than a light, fruity drink. Fresh fruit makes this summer white sangria recipe perfect for the 4th of July!

What you’ll need-

Directions –

Oh, travel days! Traveling days can be long and stressful, but that doesn’t mean you have to dread days when you have to go to the airport.

Who doesn’t love festive fashion!

Happy 2021! I think it’s safe to say that we’re all happy to see 2020 in the rear view mirror. As we step into a new year, I think now more than ever, people are seeking out a life reset. What goals are you trying to tackle this year?

What exactly is grief?

We were not ready.

How do you cope?

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Ann Taylor End of Summer Sale! Extra 50% off^* + Additional 30% off^* All Sale Styles!